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We need to talk about nullfather

Posted 2 Months ago by CZM

As concisely as possible:

Trying to reinvent myself and move on doesn't work if I don't face who I was first. I have hurt people in the past. I want to apologize to them. Even if I am on good terms with them now, it does not change what I did. Even if no-one has called me out, it doesn't mean that I can pretend that it never happened. And even if I'm ready to try to move on, it's not about what I want. It's about the people that I hurt. And it's about getting it out in the sunlight where I am held accountable.

@poptart!: I apologize for my various rudenesses that arose from our ego clashes years ago.

@mariomguy: I apologize for the various excessive personal statements that I made about you during our arguments.

@tnu: I apologize for my harsh treatment of you and the difficulties that you face.

Will expand this list as I get my thoughts together. If I have hurt you in the past, let me know. This is why I'm here.

There are 10 Replies


@Grey Echelon: I apologize deeply for things that I said to you, both privately and on GT, which I know hurt you or even targeted your conditions. I regret these things deeply and I would stop myself from doing those things if I had the chance.

2 Months ago
CZM
 

It's all good, I know you're more than that and I know how it can be.

2 Months ago
Grey Echelon
 

At least you're acknowledging. That's a good start.

2 Months ago
mariomguy
 

Thanks very much appreciated good to be friends again.

2 Months ago
tnu
 

At least you're acknowledging. That's a good start.


There has never been a mystery about if I can or have hurt people. It's not that I am acknowledging it now, as if I hadn't before. It's that I have started to believe that I am strong enough to do better.

2 Months ago
CZM
 

@I Killed Mufasa: I have said things to you that I not only knew would be hurtful to you, but which I intended to hurt you with in the most direct and targeted way. This included even targeting what I knew about your personal relationships with some of your family members, which is an entirely inexcusable thing. Such a course of action should be completely out of the question for me. I would like to express the most direct apology possible for the ways that I hurt you.

2 Months ago
CZM
 

@I killed Mufasa:

3 Weeks ago
CZM
 

Actually dude, some of your comments helped me out. Blunt truth is something I can appreciate, and at one point I was so fed up with dealing with your shit that I broke away from my addiction to this place. Now I barely check in at all.

Truth be told I can be pretty cringe sometimes and have bad takes and I've done a fair bit of my own self reflection.

I think you're fine, and I stopped listening to shitty bands like breaking benjamin. XD

I wish only the best for you. <3

3 Weeks ago
I killed Mufasa
 

That shit was water under the bridge like a full year ago my dude.

3 Weeks ago
I killed Mufasa
 

Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope for the best for you, too.

3 Weeks ago
CZM
 

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