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...im very broken English, "I don't want you to leave me. I want to put my head under your leg."

Am I at the appropriate level lf freaking out or am i overreacting? Help? I want out of the car?

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Bad translation maybe? Ask him to reword his request?

Posted September 18th by Xhin
Xhin
 

*her

Update: I got to my destination

Posted September 18th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

Also strange. How did that conversation go?

Posted September 18th by Xhin
Xhin
 

Waht conversation?

Posted September 19th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

Oh wait no. Kinda like she vented a lot of personal stuff and told me about how she breaks down crying in her shower. I said some generic supportive stuff. Silence. She says ghat I mentioned in tej OP. I laugh nervouely. Then lapse into silence again scept she starts sighing really heavily sometimes. Approaching destination she says "Do you want the left or
Right aode of the road?"
"Left please" then we park and i say "thanks for the ride!" And run away

Edited September 19th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

She sounds like:



Posted September 19th by Xhin
Xhin
 

I hope this doesn't sound arrogant, but sometimes I think people just like confiding in me, or maybe I ask questions that are too personal too soon. Either way, it's all a big mistake, considering I'm inconsistent as a friend and fairly aloof most the time. I've pissed off a lot of people.

Posted September 19th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

I think it should be taken as a good attribute that others seem to feel comfortable confiding in you, even as a stranger.

Posted September 19th by Vandy
Vandy

Thanks Vandy. You're a blessing to this site/the world.

Posted September 19th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

I agree with Vandy. Also I seem to end up in your position a lot. Having the confidant skill can be highly useful because people are more willing to trust or rely on you.

Don't have high expectations for those kinds of friendships or for those people in general though. When they're quick to rely on you emotionally it means they can't manage their own lives and can't manage their friendship with you when things get rough either. And for the love of god don't try to have a relationship with one of them, unless you've protected yourself heavily and are 100% using them.

Posted September 19th by Xhin
Xhin
 

wow that would be thr most awkward thing ever

"Either way, it's all a big mistake, considering I'm inconsistent as a friend and fairly aloof most the time. I've pissed off a lot of people."

ehhh dude i can tell that you have a fuckton of empathy - there's no way you're a worse friend than someone like, say, me. i have this problem where i just DON'T FUCKING CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS and it kinda sucks for anyone close to me. it's a miracle i've kept a girlfriend for 5 years (as of today)

Posted September 20th by poptart!
poptart!
 

Thanks poptart. :)
I'm not entirely sure how to respond because, on one hand, I definitely relate to the "i just DON'T FUCKING CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS" sentiment.

Congrats on 5 years. :)

Posted September 20th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

Don't have high expectations for those kinds of friendships or for those people in general though.


I don't know, Xhin. Thanks though.

Posted September 20th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

I locked my whiskey in the wrong room... and now I can't get it. :( :(
I'm becoming sober. :( :(

Life hack! If you drink less, you feel better in the morning.

Edited September 20th by Cetasaurus
Cetasaurus
formerly KM8

I don't know, Xhin. Thanks though.

I learned this the hard way. Some very one-sided friendships/relationships.

Posted September 21st by Xhin
Xhin
 
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